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Things that make me Shake in My Boots

May 18, 2006 by Tricia

Thirteen Things Tricia is afraid of

1…. Thunder! Yes, Thunder, not lightning. Well, yes, I do have a healthy fear of lightning, but why on earth do I want to crawl under the covers and hide my head when it thunders? My brother brought back a Rhodesian Ridgeback dog from Africa, back in the 80’s, and that dog was terrified of storms. I used to hide under the table with him!

2…. I was told that when I was a young child a motorcycle drove by and I went into hysterics over the sound. Perhaps that’s why thunder bothers me.
3…. If I could choose how I might die drowning wouldn’t even make the list. I’m not a strong swimmer, and the thought of sinking and not being able to get back up scares the heck out of me. I do however love canoeing and whitewater rafting. Go figure!
4…. I’m afraid of heights. Even standing on a chair bothers me.
5…. Even with my fear of heights, I find myself up on ladders more often than I’d like to be seeing as our house is in a constant state of renovation! Plus, I used to rock climb. I haven’t done that for years but I bet I still could.
6…. I don’t like bridges very much either. That’s probably a combination of the fear of heights and maybe even the fear of drowning thingy.

7…. Does a bridge make a loud noise when it falls down? If it does then bridges might also be on my thunder list. They do rumble when you are standing on one and a big truck drives on it. Are you following my logic or have I totally lost you?
8…. Fear of falling! Just take a look at what happened to me a month and a half ago to know why I fear falling. Oh my chin and jaw!
9…. Hey I’m a klutz. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, so it’s only natural that I fear personal injury due to my klutziness!
10…. Speaking of being a klutz, and injury, I just burned the top of my right index finger and the bottom of my left middle finger while trying to take a hot pizza off the pan. What can I say, the pan slipped, I grabbed it. Stupid!
11…. Fear of fire. When I was 5 our old farmhouse cottage burned down with my brother inside of it. I remember standing outside with my mother and grandmother calling for my brother for what seemed like hours. Fortunately, unbeknown to us, my uncle had run into the house and rescued my brother shortly after the fire started.
12…. I fear for my husband. A year and a half ago he passed out at work, right at the triage station in Emergency. His ecg was altered, so they thought he had a rare sudden death heart arrhythmia called Brugada Syndrome. He was thoroughly tested, something like what they did on HOUSE last night, and they weren’t able to find any problems. But, his ecg is still altered and he still feels faint and shaky at times and when he does I worry over him. He’s too young to die, we have a lot to do yet.
13…. Pain. I fear pain. I have constant chronic pain in my abdomen and it always gets worse at night, worse if I lie down. So I don’t sleep, and when I don’t sleep I have more pain. Ow.

So Am I a wuss or what? I think most of my fears have a rational basis, but maybe I’m wrong. What do you think? Do you have any fears?

** Update** From some of the comments I think some people think I’m sitting here living in fear. Nope! I’m not. I’m not quaking in fear all day everyday. This list is for fun. Everybody has fears, I’m just opening up and listing a few of mine.

Oh and please check out my Wordless Wednesday post below as well! Thanks!

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Filed Under: Entertainment, Home and Lifestyle, Humor, Life with Chris, Recreation, Thursday Thirteen Tagged With: brother, Chronic Pain, dog, Entertainment, fear, Health Fitness and Beauty, Home and Lifestyle, house, lightening, mother, night, storm, T13, thunder, Thursday Thirteen, TT

Bad Rating?

May 17, 2006 by Tricia

OMG! Someone gave my site a really bad rating over at BL0GEXPLOSION! All 1’s ??? Come on … only a site that either doesn’t load at all, or that’s full of racial slurs and hate deserves all 1’s. Really.

I don’t care all that much about my rating, but this is so out of whack. I wonder if there is someone going around on BE, like there is at BL0GMAD, giving everyone bad ratings?

It just seems so mean! It also makes me feel very distrustful of people too. Was it someone I battled against yesterday? (The rating occurred last night) Someone that saw my site in the BL0G rocket? Or even someone that I talked to in the SB? I’m trying to be friendly, perhaps make some friends and most of all have some fun, but someone doing something like this really makes me wonder about people.

Want to do me a favor and get my site rating back up to where it should be? BTW where it should be is for you guys to determine, I’m not begging for a high rating, just a fair one. Review my site on BE and tell me what you really think.

Thanks!

Filed Under: Blog traffic exchanges, Blogging, Entertainment, Home and Lifestyle, Sales and Marketing, Web and Technology, Website Promotion Tagged With: Bad rating, battle, blog, Blog traffic exchanges, blogmad, friend, friends, hate, site, user, Website Promotion

Thursday Thirteen – Stories from the ER

May 11, 2006 by Tricia

Thirteen Things about Working as a Nurse – Stories from the ER

I haven’t been to work since early December, and won’t be going back until the end of July. It’s taken me longer than I thought to think up some good stories for this 13 – probably because I’ve become immune to the strange things people do to themselves and also because I haven’t been working in the ER for a while. If I was back to work I could write one of these every week.

WARNING: Some of you might find these stories gross. As I read it, I think this might have been more suitable for my other site Odd Planet.

1…. One of the strangest things that I ever saw while working as a nurse occurred when I was still a student nurse. A man had come in with a padlock around his penis. He said it hadn’t been there long, but judging from the damage I’d say that it had been there for more than 24 hours. He’d apparently been with a prostitute and then refused to pay or angered her in some way. She slapped the padlock on him and refused to unlock it. When the man eventually came in to the hospital, the lock having been rubbing against his swollen tissue for many hours, had caused necrosis (skin and tissue death) to occur. The lock had to be cut off and the man had to go through several painful debriding (removal of dead tissue) procedures as a result.

2…. Another man had been hit by a transport truck while driving his motorcycle and dragged several hundred feet. All of the skin and muscles on his back were torn off. This poor man was doomed to a life in the hospital because he had permanently open wounds on his back, and no muscles or tendons to enable him to sit up or even walk.

3…. One morning after working a 12 hour night shift, as I was saying good-bye to my co-workers I heard a lot of shouting near the ER entrance. I looked up the hallway towards the doors just in time to see my husband, who works as a Porter in the hospital, jump onto a patient on a EMS stretcher.

4…. I hurried up to where the action was and as I did two police officers and four paramedics also surrounded the stretcher and grabbed a hold of the patients flailing legs and arms. Meanwhile my husband was lying across the mans legs.

5…. The patient was totally out of his mind. He was high on PCP (my initials BTW – call me Angel), Extacy, Cocaine and possibly acid. He’d already violently bitten one of the police officers. This man was the most violent and out of control “high” patient that I’ve ever seen, and my husband was lying across him in an effort to hold him down.

6…. We finally got the patient into our Recus area. Transferring him to a hospital stretcher was no easy feat. I took care of him for a short while before going home and it was like trying to take care of Hannibal Lector – he was all gnashing teeth and spit. He tried one more time to bite an officer, after he’d tried to bite me, that is. When he finally started to come down, I heard that he was threatening to sue the police and hospital for mistreatment.

7…. My husbands first night shift. He was asked to help security with finding a naked old man who had apparently tried to strangle a nurse with a blood pressure cuff. Chris went up to one of the darkened floors and heard a whoosh, whoosh noise, and as he peered around the corner he found one of the security guards staring at the old naked man as he whirled an emergency fire hose around his head. My husband dived under the whirling fire hose and tackled the patient. Noticing after he did that, that the mans surgical abdominal wound was open and he had intestine sticking out of his belly. Apparently his belly was like this before my hubby tackled the patient.

8…. Another time I was near the ER entrance when I noticed a cab driver pull up and help a passenger out of the car. The man was in shorts and the front of one of his shins appeared to be covered in blood. As the man got closer I saw that the mans shin wasn’t just covered in blood but that it was missing all the skin, tissue and muscle from the knee to the ankle. The man had been kidnapped and thrown in a trunk, and as he managed to escape from the trunk while the car was moving, he tore the tissue off his leg. He would need a lot of surgery to repair the damage.

9…. A very large lady passed away on one of the floors. Security usually meets the funeral attendant at the morgue entrance and allows them to remove the body from the morgue. While the funeral attendant was rolling the stretcher with the large lady down the exit ramp from the morgue the stretcher broke and both the body and stretcher landed on the funeral attendant and the security guard. The guard had to call her fellow security guards to come and help.

10…. Then there was the patients visitor who walked through the hospital smoking a cigarette. I was walking down the hallway, behind the director of Emerg and noticed this man pass her. She stopped and stared, as did I, but she didn’t do anything. I went back and told security and while they could smell the cigarette (they later said it was a joint, but it wasn’t when I saw the man) they never found the man. He apparently walked down the main corridors of the hospital at least three times without being caught.

11…. Then there are always the kids that shove things up their nose or into their ears. Peas, beans, crayons, small toys. I guess it doesn’t hurt going in, but from the screams and tears it must hurt a lot coming out!

12…. Kids also swallow some interesting things – coins, toy trucks, pins. These x-rays are often quite interesting to look at.

13…. I’m not even going to discuss what adults swallow or put in various orifices. Nope, I’ve grossed you out enough for one day I think!

Filed Under: Health Fitness and Beauty, Humor, Nursing Tagged With: 13, ER, ER Stories, fever, General Musings, Health and Fitness, Hospital, Humor, husband, interest, moving, night, nurse, Nursing, strange, Thursday Thirteen, TT

Fake Nails

April 21, 2006 by Tricia

This is my husbands hand:

Fake Nails

Yep, my husband wears fake nails! I don’t know what’s gotten into him lately. This is the second time in the last 6 months that he’s been overcome with the sudden desire to have fake nails.

The first time, Chris was visiting me while I was working in the ER. He offered to go to my favorite coffee shop- Tim Hortons- to get me a drink. Naturally I said yes, I never say no to either their coffee or their Ice Caps. I love Ice Caps. He didn’t have any money so I gave him $20. I think he was going to get some drinks for some of my co-workers as well, our treat.

Two hours later my ever wandering husband returned. He tapped me on the shoulder while I was with a patient and they jammed his right hand into my face. “See what I did?” All excited.

“You… You have fake nails? Man that looks weird.”

“Yeah, I went to check out that place at the strip mall Just Nails. They weren’t busy so I got my nails done.”

“You did, did you” Still stunned. My co-workers are laughing.

“I had one lady doing my nails and two gave me a foot massage and a pedicure.”

“You got a pedicure too?” (What the heck is going on?) “How much did all of this cost?”

“$20 bucks”

“Let me see if I’ve got this right: You had three women working on you for $20? Just what kind of massage did you say you got?” I’m laughing picturing this, but he’s so excited about his first pedicure that he doesn’t realize how funny this situation has become.

“That’s right and I really liked the pedicure. I want to get another one soon.”

“I can’t believe you have fake nails!” Staring in a stunned manner at his oddly feminine looking hand.

“Well you know I was trying to figure out a way to make my nails harder for guitar playing. Bruce Cockburn (a famous Canadian Musician) supposedly puts crazy glue on his nails to make them harder and a lot of serious guitarists use fake nails.”

This explains everything. My husband hasn’t suddenly become fascinated with fake nails, manicures and pedicures, well maybe a little he only did this for his guitar playing. It is true that many famous guitarists use various methods including fake nails to give them more picking strength.

That was his first experience with fake nails.

The nails are only on his right hand, which makes it look even stranger. The first set of nails he had were really thick and while they did give him the nail strength he was looking for while playing guitar, they looked just terrible. He also kept them on for about three months and they got uglier as time went by. The second set of nails are much thinner and more natural looking. Well, sorta.

When he approached me earlier this afternoon mentioning that he wanted to get fake nails again I wasn’t thrilled. The first ones not only looked weird but they also felt disgusting when he’d touch me. Yuck. I tried to dissuade him by reminding him we have a big family wedding to go to next weekend. “Your going to have fake nails at Petra’s wedding?”

My attempts at stalling the inevitable didn’t work and off he went to get his “new” nails. They don’t feel quite as odd when he touches my skin, so that’s good, but damn, they still look odd!

Any male readers out there experiment with fake nails? or enjoy a pedicure every now and then?

Ladies, do you have any stories to tell about your man doing something distinctly feminine?

I don’t think my roomie Ed has fake nails, but I’m not sure. I’ll have to ask him. In the meantime, why don’t you visit Ed at Parenting Toys and see his post “I remember when …” and add some of your childhood memories to his post?

Filed Under: Home and Lifestyle, Humor, Life with Chris Tagged With: Chris, fake nails, Family, funny, guitar, guitarist, Home and Lifestyle, husband, Life with Chris, man, manicure, Music, musician, pedicure, strange

Black White

April 17, 2006 by Tricia

Has anyone watched the new television series Black. White. ? It’s been airing here in Canada on Sunday evenings. I’ve seen two episodes so far.

If you haven’t heard of this program it’s about two families. One black couple with their teenage son, and one white couple with their teenage daughter. For a period of 6 weeks, I believe, they all live together in one house. A crew of make up artists work with each family to change the color of their skin from white to black, and black to white for various outings. When they are together in the home they are without the special effects make up, but when they go out in public they take turns experiencing life in the other families skin color.

The show is an experiment to see if each family can experience what life is like for the other family. It’s an interesting show, not quite as enlightening as I hoped it might be, but there are still several episodes to be aired.

My take:

I think they could have cast the white family better. I like the teenage girl. She seems to really want to understand the experiment, truly tries to experience life as a black teenager when she is made up to appear as one. The parents on the other hand, openly state they haven’t spent much time with “black people” although the father mentioned playing golf with a work buddy who is black. They say things to the other family that come off as sounding naive and racist. At this point neither of them have felt that they have experienced any racism when they have been out in public made up to appear as black people.

In the first episode that I watched the white couple is made up to look like a black couple and they attend a discussion panel with other black people to discuss racism that they have experienced. The man jumps right into the discussion, even though this is the first time he’s appearing as a black man and discusses what he’s experienced when he’s been called a n*****, stating I believe that he just reacts like “why would you call me that?” and would not get angry at all. Somehow I don’t think this would be a normal reaction at all.

The black couple seem a bit more realistic about the whole thing. I’m not that sure that they are that open to learning and experiencing life as white people. The man seems more open to the experience but seems to see racism in the way people talk to him in everyday conversations and even in the way they move to the side when he walks by white people on the street. From what they have shown on the show it’s possible that he is perceiving racism that isn’t always there. I haven’t seen his wife on an outing dressed up as a white person on her own yet, but in the way she talks and acts in the home she seems to have more of a wall up than her husband. The son pulls off looking white best, but from some of his statements he doesn’t appear to want to try to “pull off” being white when made up to look white.

Again in the first episode the black couple is made up to look white and they attend a discussion panel that talks about racism. I can’t recall them doing anything at that discussion that stands out but I was amazed to hear what some of the white participants attending the discussion had to say. The most startling statement was from a man that said, with apparent dismay as if knowing his reaction was very abnormal (or at least I hope it is!) “When I shake hands with a black person I always feel like I have to wipe my hands on my pants afterwords.” I just can’t imagine anyone feeling that way.

Make up wise- I don’t think any of the family members really pull off looking black or white 100% successfully. They appear to when they are out in public … but they just don’t look right to me. I think the black family looks slightly Hispanic, and the white families features are much too Caucasian to pull off anything but perhaps a light skinned black.

Has anyone been watching this show? If you have, how do you feel about it?

Whatever your color or race – Do you feel that you’ve experienced racism? If you have experienced racism, has it been subtle or outright “I don’t like you because of your race” racism? And what Country have you had your experiences in?

I’m white. I don’t believe that I’m racist, however depending upon how you view the world I suppose it’s possible that some of the things I say, the way I say them or my actions could be taken as being racist by a person with a very negative view. What I mean is that if I interacted with someone that saw almost everything as racist then yes they might perceive something I said as being racial.

I have experienced subtle forms of racism though. I am part Native Indian. You probably wouldn’t know if unless you looked at me very closely, or saw pictures of my other family members. It upsets me when people talk badly about native Indians, sometimes trying to bring me into the conversation and get me to agree with them. Most of the time they don’t realize that I am part native Indian and when they do they make excuses “well I didn’t mean you, you’re not like them”.

I’m currently living in what is viewed as the most diverse city in the world- Toronto, but I didn’t always live in such a diverse city. I originally came from Ottawa which was, at the time of my childhood, a very white city. I think there were only two black students in my lower school. I remember my first day at kindergarten, the very first child that I met happened to be a little black girl. Of course I know now that she was black but I don’t think it really occurred to me when I was little, all I remember is that she was the first little girl I met on that scary first day of school and she wanted to be my friend- and friends we were.

Perhaps becoming friends with Faith on that first day of school helped form my view on race. Either way, I don’t react to people by the color of their skin. I try to form my opinions of anyone that I meet by what they say, how they behave. By their actions not their color.

Depending on what kind of comments I get I might delve further into this topic. Please keep your comments informative, and civil. Derogatory comments will be removed.

Filed Under: Culture, Politics, Television Tagged With: black, Culture, experiences, Politics, program, race, racial, racist, Television, watch, watching, white

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