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My jaw is healing

April 10, 2006 by Tricia

I had a very busy week last week. I accomplished a number of things that I needed to finish, and I had a semi-life changing event occur.

Since my posts tend to be long, I’ve decided to break this up into a few postings:

I’ll start by giving an update on “flat on my face“. If you read that post you’ll know that I had a very bad fall on March 30th. I landed right on my chin and ended up with stitches and a very sore jaw. I still can’t figure out how I ended up falling. One of life’s mysteries I guess.

I’m pleased to announce that I had my stitches removed last Friday and that the wound appears to be healing well. I’m glad to have gotten rid of those awful stitches, I think I was allergic to them. My husband also said it looked like I had pubic hairs sticking out of my chin. Gee, I wonder why I preferred to think of them as old lady whiskers?

The flesh on my chin is one hard lump of tissue though. It feels like it’s about an inch thick. I still worry that if someone is looking at me in profile that it might look like I’ve got a witches chin. It has gone down a bit since I originally injured myself, but I’m worried that I won’t have my own chin back my the end of the month when my niece is getting married. Do I sound vain?

My jaw is healing at a slower rate than my chin. Thankfully it doesn’t hurt as much as it did during the first week and I can actually chew food now without too much discomfort, but it does still hurt. I think it will take another week or two before my jaw feels normal again. I’m still worried that I might have some form of permanent injury to my jaw. However, I am reassured that the pain is lessening, so perhaps if I keep my fingers crossed the jaw problems will go away soon.





Filed Under: Health Fitness and Beauty, Home and Lifestyle Tagged With: chin, comfort, face, fall, falling, Health and Fitness, hurt, husband, injured, injury, jaw, Niece, pain, post, problems, slow, Sore, too much

I’m being Stalked!

April 9, 2006 by Tricia

I’m almost afraid to rent to anyone this week! As you can see the “Rent my BL0G” area is empty at the moment. Shelly from The Dramedy of Life packed her bags and moved out in the middle of the night leaving the room vacant for yet another renter.

But now I’m afraid, very afraid …

You see, she packed her bags and moved in to one of my last landlords rooms. She’s staying at Eric’s – The Panic Bl0G this week. When Eric wrote a welcome post to her yesterday, I decided to welcome her in his comment section and I told her what a great landlord he had been for me. She replied back in his comment section and she actually told me that she is stalking me! She wants to know where I’m renting this week so she can crash at their place when I leave. She’s following me around!

I don’t know her as well as I thought I did, for all I know she’s stalking other BL0G owners that she’s rented from in the past too. This might make the situation worse, but I thought I’d better warn my current and past landlords about her stalking ways, and oh what the heck I’ll warn my past tenants as well. You just never know how far she’ll go with this stalking thing!

I hope you are all smart enough to realize this post is in jest. 🙂 Shelly and I really have been filling Eric’s comment area up with the comments I mentioned earlier, but I’m pretty sure she’s joking about stalking me. Well at least I hope she is. If she isn’t then this post will serve as a warning to all the other sites I’ve been closely associated with in the recent past.

I’ve decided that I will put my site up for rent again. Hopefully the new tenant won’t end up being a stalker too!

I really have been stalked in real life, and it wasn’t as much fun as being pseudo BLOG stalked.

It’s a long story, and perhaps I’ll give more details another time, but for now I’ll just keep it short. Back when I was a jeweler I started seeing another jeweler. He was a real romeo. Romancing me, flirting when he visited my office, and making me feel like a queen.

I thought things were going well but it turned out that after seeing him for several months, just as I thought he might be The one, he told me he had some bad news. He was from a Georgian Family (formerly part of Russia) and his parents had arranged a marriage for him. I hadn’t realized that that was customary for his cultural background, but it was. He broke my heart.

Within a few weeks of informing me of his impending marriage, he went off to his former country and brought back his new bride. He wasn’t happy though and he kept pursuing me. Since he was married I didn’t want to have anything to do with him.

I would see his car parked outside my apartment many nights during the week. He was watching my place. Other times I would see another jewelers car parked outside – a friend of his that he must have asked to watch me. It was very creepy. He would also come into my office and try to convince me to start seeing him again. This went on for several years, even when I was seeing other men I would still see his car outside or have him stop in my office to try to change my mind. It wasn’t until the man who I ended up marrying, Chris, moved in with me that the stalking stopped. I’ve heard that he still asks about me but as far as I know he’s not sitting in a car outside my home anymore.

Apparently all men from Georgia (Formerly part of Russia- not USA) are descendants of Kings or Princes, so it is said that many of the men in Georgia actually are Princes. I don’t know the full story so that’s all I’ll say of their history. So … considering that at one point I thought I might marry this man, when you think about it, I could have married a prince and become a princess, but instead I just got stalked by one.

Right now- unless Shelly really is a stalker, I only know of one person who is stalking me and that is my little old lady neighbor Sofie who peeks at me from her windows or comes outside when I’m out and copies anything I’m doing. She’s a sweetie though.

Visit again later today or tomorrow- I’ve had a very busy week and I plan to write about it in my next one or two posts.

Filed Under: Rent my site, Socializing, Website Promotion Tagged With: Georgia, Rent my site, Renter, Russia, Socializing, stalker, stalking, tenant, Website Promotion

Noises people make

April 4, 2006 by Tricia

Are there noises that people make that irritate you to no end? Or are you one of the few that could be surrounded by a group of slurping, sucking, clacking, sighing, or munching people and not be bothered in the least by it?

I can take all of these sounds in small doses, but if it’s particularly irritating or goes on and on, well that person is taking their life in their own hands. I haven’t injured anyone yet but I sure came close today!

As I said I can take some of this over a short period of time. My husband is a fidgeted. I’m getting used to the odd things he does and the odd sounds that he makes or creates. For example:

  • We have leather couches. My husband loves cold things. leather couches are cold. My hubby will lie on the couch watching T.V. and rub his arm back and forth over the couch. Sometimes he does this with his legs. Occasionally arms and legs at the same time. It sort of looks like he’s having a strange kind of seizure. I’ll tolerate it for a while but eventually the shussshing noise of his skin rubbing the leather, or the creaking noises of the couch get to me and I’ll ask him to stop. When he wears the leather off these babies we are not getting leather again. Uh uhuh.
  • He likes to tap his nails on the steering wheel in time to the music when he drives. Click click click;
  • If he’s watching T.V. or reading while eating he sometimes gets distracted and eats with his mouth open gloriously enhancing the sounds of mastication.
  • He sometimes hums when he chews.
  • He occasionally slurps his drink.
  • He moves his fingers as if he’s playing guitar if there is music on T.V., and or he wiggles his feet around to music while watching a program. Distracting if he really gets going.
  • Oh, and when he clears his throat he’s started to do it much more vocally. This one scares me because his dad also clears his throat vocally. So loudly in fact that a whole room will vibrate, and he does this frequently, perhaps every 5 to 10 minutes. If hubby starts getting louder when he clears his throat it will drive me nuts!

Now this post is NOT about my husband, even though I’ve listed a few of his either bad or odd habits. I tolerate these habits fairly well for the most part. In fact, I find some of them amusing if they are momentary. We all have some irritating habits or sounds that we make. I’m sure we do. I’m not really sure what my irritating sounds are, but I’m human, and I must have some. You see, my husband is one of those rare people that can tolerate just about anything, so I can’t count on him to let me know that something I do is irritating. I could have a habit of making the most irritating sounds and he wouldn’t tell me. Aren’t I lucky?

No this post is about a lady I encountered Monday afternoon while I waited for 25 minutes in a line to drop off some important papers. My hubby and I were standing in line minding our own business when I heard some rustling behind me. I didn’t think much of it until I started hearing “Crunch, Crunch, CRUNCH” then a pause, then “Crunch, CRUNCH, Crunch … ”

Ok so someone behind me was eating some very crunchy chips. Maybe they were Doritos … they are fairly crunchy. I didn’t think the sounds would go on too long- after all a bag is only so big, but they went on for at least 10 minutes.

Ahhh the sound stopped. Now if only this line would move I could finish up here and then get some other things done and head home.

Behind me I hear “smUUUVvvvvvvvvv” “Stttutchhhhhhhhhh” Is she doing what I think she’s doing? Is she SUCKING HER TEETH? Yep she’s sucking her teeth. I’m starting to get irritated now. My jaw is hurting, I’m in public with my messed up face thanks to my accident, and someone has been making loud crunching noises behind me and must have been eating something that stuck in her teeth.

I glanced at my husband and moved my eyes back in the direction of the lady. My husband just nodded. He knew I was getting irritated. The sucking teeth noise went on and on for the duration of my remaining time in the line. I endured crunching noises for 10 minutes followed by extreme tooth sucking for 15 minutes.

I think my hubby was amused, me I was starting to vibrate with irritation. My limbs were shaking. I wanted to turn around and give the lady the evil eye but I’m usually very polite in public and I don’t like to show my irritation with people. Also I was afraid that if I did turn around my hands would have reached for her throat and that might have ended badly and ruined my day. I hate it when my day is ruined.

Why would she eat something that stuck in her teeth while in public, while in a line that she couldn’t leave in order to go brush her teeth or floss or pick at them in private like a normal person would? Why? Did she not realize how loud the sound of her tooth sucking was? Yes I know that that things get stuck in peoples teeth and sometimes they find themselves trying to suck the evil piece of debris from their teeth, but most people only do that for a minute at the most, NOT 15 minutes!

Her life was spared today, but if she does that in public again she might run into someone who is even more easily irritated than I, or perhaps someone with less control that I had today and she might make news headlines.

I can see it now:

“Woman Strangled in crowded grocery line up this Evening … The accused was heard to say as he was lead off by police “she wouldn’t stop, she just kept sucking her teeth, louder and louder. I had to make the sound stop. but … I can still hear it in my head! Oh make it stop, make it stop, please”. The accused is expected to plea temporary insanity.”

Filed Under: Socializing Tagged With: chewing, clear throat, couch, eating, eating in line, grocery, guitar, interest, irritating, line, noises, noisy people, noisy person, Socializing, strange, suck teeth, sucking, sucking noise, sucking teeth, teeth

Flat on my face

March 31, 2006 by Tricia

Or rather, I fell flat on my chinny chin chin!

I wrote out the whole story on Odd Planet if you’d like to go and read about my accident. It’s kind of humorous, so if you’d like a bit of a laugh at my expense go read the whole story.

The semi-short version is that I was walking with my husband and I either got dizzy or tripped and after a short useless attempt at keeping myself upright I used my chin as a landing pad. On a cement sidewalk!

My husband got me to the hospital pretty fast when he saw the big gapping hole in my chin, and when I told him that I had heard quite a crack when I landed. I wasn’t sure if I had broken my jaw it was hurting so bad. We had a small pit stop at home before we went to the hospital so that I could change my coat since the one I was wearing at the time was covered in blood, and so that I could get an ice pack on my face.

The hospital we went to is the one that I work at, in fact I had to visit the ER where I work. Very embarrassing!

To keep this on the short side I ended up with several stitches in my lower chin after the doctor told me that the wound was right to my chin bone. I must have popped not only the skin but the tissues below it on impact. The doctor also told me that it will take several months to fully heal. It’s bad!

I also had several x-rays of my jaw since it was aching even worse by the time the stitches were finished. The left side is the worst, and the pain goes right into my ear. The x-rays looked good to the doctor, but a radiologist will check them out tomorrow to be sure that there aren’t any small fractures.

At the very least I expect that I’ll be in pain for a few days and end up with a lot of bruising. I haven’t looked at my face since we got home a couple of hours ago, but when I feel my chin it feels like it’s all puffed out. Picture a profile view of a witch with her chin extended and jutting out and that’s what my chin feels like to me right now.

My niece, the first, who happens to have been born when I was 12, is getting married near the end of April. The doctor told me that my scar will be very bad around that time because scars are usually very red and raised after about 4 or 5 weeks of healing. Lovely! Just in time for the wedding. Oh well, I guess it could be worse. I really could have broken my jaw and ended up attending her wedding with a wired jaw or something like that.

I’m sitting here in a lot of pain right now. I really hit the ground hard! My neck, my jaw, and the sides of my head hurt. The freezing is also starting to come out of my wound too so that’s talking to me as well.

I haven’t eaten yet so I’m going to go try to suck some soup through my stiff jaw and then try to sooth my aches and pains with an ice pack. I still can’t believe I did this to myself. I’ve told you before that I’m a klutz. Well here’s the proof! Thankfully I’m usually a bit more resilient than I was tonight.

Filed Under: Health Fitness and Beauty, Home and Lifestyle, Pulled a Trish Tagged With: accident, chin, Health and Fitness, jaw, klutz, Pulled a Trish, stitches, wound, x ray

Extreme Gardening

March 29, 2006 by Tricia

It’s that time of year again. Time to uncover the garden, taking off any winter protection that I put on in late fall and see what’s happening with my plants.

Before I go any further I must explain that the winter of 2004/2005 was very very cold here, with very little snow cover. I had protected most of my plants with either a mound of soil (around roses), or a layer of leaves and we did put some burlap up around the plants in the back yard. It looks ugly, but hey, it’s usually covered in at least a foot of snow and it’s the backyard- who sees it but us and some of our neighbors right? That year I lost two roses in the front flower bed, and had to move a struggling climbing rose to the backyard or else it would have died as well. Most winters aren’t that harsh here in Toronto, but that one was particularly bad for my tender plants.

This past fall I was determined not to lose any plants. I think we kind of over did it. My husband gathered more than 50 bags of leaves from our neighbors. Actually I have no idea how many bags of leaves we used- I stopped counting at 50.

It’s very windy where we live. Year round. Why, I don’t know exactly, but just believe me- it’s windy. So, ever since I started planting tender roses in my yard I’ve tried to protect them from the harsh winter wind. We do this by attaching burlap to the fence behind the flower beds, then I put a mound of earth around my roses that is about a foot high, foot wide. After that we put at least a foot of leaves on the plants, and then we create a burlap fence at the front of each flower bed. I don’t wrap many of my plants, I just fence them in and give them a layer of protection.

This winter our plants had about 3 feet of leaves covering them- I kid you not! Of course it figures that this winter was so mild that we barely had to wear winter clothing.

Last Friday I went outside and took a good look at our well protected garden. All the roses survived, perhaps even thrived. Green stems and branches right to the tips! I’ll be starting out with roses this year that are four or five feet tall rather than having to cut down their frost damaged dead branches to within a foot of the ground as I usually do. They all have leaf buds and I believe, after looking at one rose closely yesterday that I might actually have tiny rose leaves on some by the end of the week. Unbelievable!

My first crocus’ were up last Friday too!

Yellow Crocus

Yesterday I decided that the garden needed to be uncovered. I wanted to see what was under all those leaves. We started by taking down the burlap in the front yard- yes I burlapped the front last fall due to my rose loses. Ugly! It had to go, people were staring at my house.

I came up with the bright idea that we could gather all of the leaves that we had used and mulch them with the lawn mower, turn them into compost and put them back on the garden in a few months. Yeah ha ha. Just the leaves from the front, carefully put into two large garbage containers, pretty much covered the free space in our backyard. I think we had 7 or 8 large garbage containers of leaves on the front flower bed.

My husband being the good guy that he is went along with my scheme. As he always does. He did his best to mulch up the leaves from the front flower beds. I was able to put about half of them into our compost container.

Then we started uncovering the backyard. Outer layer of burlap came down and we surveyed the huge amount of leaves that we’d have to dispose of in some way or another. It is an extreme amount! We managed to uncover about a third of the back flower beds before we finally gave up.

A friend from work came over around 4:30 in the afternoon and ended up being our first garden visitor of the year. My husband being the social butterfly that he is, decided at 6:30 p.m. while we were still working in the backyard to call another friend from work to see if she and her husband wanted to come over and watch us. Now who would want to come over and watch two people move leaves around in their yard? I probably wouldn’t, but my hubby is a real charmer and they did come over around 7:30 p.m.. We were still working in the yard, in the dark when they arrived.

We have a very small backyard. It measures 17 feet wide, by 32 feet long. Our front yard is even smaller- you could probably fit our front yard into our backyard 10 times. Most of the backyard is taken up by a border of 3 and 4 foot deep flowerbeds and a 20 square foot patio. There isn’t much lawn, but what lawn there was was covered in at least 2 feet of leaves when our friends arrived, and the flowerbeds still had a good coating of leaves on them as well. I greeted them with “Welcome to Fall!” because it certainly doesn’t look like spring in our yard anymore, it looks like autumn. I’ll try to take a picture of it today before we start trying to clear out all the leaves.

I have no idea what to do with all the leaves. We can mulch them and perhaps put some back on the garden, turning them into the soil so that they can compost right in the ground. We can also mulch some and put them in those two great big garbage containers we have and hope they decompose in there too, or slowly add them to our compost pile when it goes down a bit. I still think we are going to have to get rid of at least half the leaves, which means putting them in yard waste bags. Trouble is that the city doesn’t start taking away yard waste until April 11th. We’ll have a long row of bags lining our narrow driveway until then. Hmmm maybe if we mulch up all the leaves our neighbors will take back some of their leaves and use them on their gardens too?

The exciting news is that under all of these leaves I found tulip and daffodil leaves. Some of the growth was almost a foot high! My tulips and daffodils don’t usually come up until sometime in April and don’t bloom until near the end of April or early May and continue on until mid-June or so. Between the leaves already starting to come out on my roses and my head started spring flowers we are going to have a spectacularly beautiful spring.

Garden stats: Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Zone 6, USDA zone 5b, backyard- southern exposure, front yard – northern exposure. Small garden with over 2500 spring and early summer flowering bulbs, 60+ roses, 400+ perennials. 200+ annuals and vegetable are planted each year as well.

Filed Under: Gardening, Home and Lifestyle, Tricia's Garden Tagged With: backyard, beautiful, bloom, daffodil, early spring, extreme gardening, flower, flowers, friends, garden, Gardening, Home and Lifestyle, husband, lawn, leaves, neighbors, plant, plants, Toronto, Tricia's Garden, tulip

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