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One big city to another

August 29, 2006 by Tricia

I’m back!

1127.28 miles (1 814.18 Kilometers), or in understandable terms – about 22 hours of driving from Toronto to Chicago and back again, and I sure glad I’m home.

We had a fantastic time. Chicago is a beautiful city, I really was blown away by all the fantastic looking buildings and beautiful sights. Maybe that’s what they really mean by “Windy City”? It’s not the wind that blows you away it’s the beauty.

The Bruce Cockburn concert was great too. I’m not a huge fan but I do appreciate seeing such a talented musician. Chris, my husband, was glued to the edge of his seat watching Bruce’s every move on the 6 different guitars that he played. Chris was trying to figure out if he plays Bruce’s music the same way, and except for a few chords here and there, yes he does.

The two people who came on our trip with us weren’t the greatest choice to have brought along. The one guy was someone that Chris works with and he’s supposed to be a musician too, but I think he’s more interested in producing than performing these days. Needless to say he didn’t bring any instruments. He brought along a girl that we hadn’t met before … a different person than who he’d told us he was bringing. We learned in the car that the girl was only 19 years old. That meant no going out to the Blues and Jazz clubs ’cause she wouldn’t be able to get in. Wish we’d known that before we started out.

I guess Chris and I must have “Mr. and Mrs. Doormat” stamped on our foreheads lately, because these two people really stiffed us on the cost of the trip. They only put in $40 for gas (Total cost of gas was close to $200), didn’t pay for the concert tickets, and didn’t really hang out with us in Chris’ brothers home or when we went downtown sight seeing. Every time we asked them for money they kept saying oh we have to go to the ATM, oh we’ll stop at an ATM on the way home and pay you, Oh we don’t have any money in our bank accounts- sorry. GEEEEEEEZZZZZZ

Anyway, I wasn’t going to let them ruin my trip. I had a great time.

We arrived at about 9:30 pm Chicago time (10:30 pm Toronto time) and a friend of Chris’ brother showed up and took us to his office to show us around. Not really what I wanted to do right after driving for 12 hours (we hit a lot of construction on the way so the trip was longer). He’s an architect and his whole office building was a beautifully restored old house. I wish I took pictures of that. It was worth the visit, and it was a short outing.

Chris’ brother cooked us up a fantastic meal of steak and grilled veggies when we got back. Mmmm that steak was so good. Then we all went outside onto the deck and Chris pulled out his guitar and entertained us for a few hours. He was so tired after doing a good portion of the driving, plus he was trying to match his brother drink for drink – which is an impossible task, so his playing stayed good, but the singing faltered after a while … he could only stumble through the songs if he had to sing along, but he did fine when we all sang. I eventually herded him towards the bedroom and we got some much needed sleep.

We didn’t get up all that early on Saturday – maybe 10:30, and by the time everyone had had the wonderful breakfast that they made for us (two types of sausages, pancakes and lots of fruit) and we all got ready to go it was getting close to 1 pm.

We drove downtown, driving by the lake shore as we went. Their beach area reminded me very much of Toronto’s beach area. We spent the afternoon walking around the downtown core. Well, Chris and I and his brother did. The two kids we brought along went shopping.

Millenium park is beautiful. What Chris’ brother was calling the Bean, I’ve since found out is called the Cloud Gate. It’s a huge metallic elliptical object that reflects everything around it. It’s quite the experience to walk up to and view yourself and the crowds surrounding you on the face of the sculpture. When you walk under it everything gets distorted and the shiny mirror like sides almost disappear to the point that you can easily walk into the walls. Which I did of course, klutz that I am! I took a lot of pictures of this sculpture and I’ll put some up over the next few days. We must have spent an hour and a half to two hours just in that park alone.

When we left the park we headed over the House of Blues. Unfortunately the bar was closed for a private party. The inside of the building was amazing to look at though, as was the outside. As I said Chicago has some wonderful architecture and you could go there and just walk around looking at all the fantastic building shapes and art work for hours. Which I guess, is pretty much what we did.

We ended up in the Harry Carey bar for a few drinks and some appetizers. We saw the baseball that was blown up last year. It’s just shreds. I love the outside of the bar, it’s really interesting looking. Pictures coming soon. Then we met up with the people that came with us on our trip and frantically drove around trying to find North Lincoln where the concert was taking place in the Old School house. We made it just on time and had a great time watching Bruce Cockburn entertain us for 3 hours or so.

After the concert Chris’ brother wanted to take us for some Chicago Deep dish pizza at a restaurant near his house- in the burbs. Unfortunately when we got there the restaurant was closed and we ended up going to a TGI Fridays. The food was NOT good there, but the bartender was entertaining. Did you know that if you fill up a beer glass or mug with draft, making sure it’s got a good head of foam that reaches the top of the glass, that if you put a napkin over it (to create a seal), you can then throw the glass about ten feet? I didn’t know that, but I saw it three times. It works.

When we told the bartender we were from Canada and asked him if he’d ever visited he said “no, it’s too cold up there I think”. LOL Hate to tell you buddy but it’s about the same temperature in Toronto as it is in Chicago and we’re in the same gardening zones (Toronto’s might be higher actually, hard to find accurate info). I always find it funny when people just seem to automatically assume that Canada is cold. Yeah, our winters are, but winter in most of the US states are fairly cool too.

After our restaurant adventure we went back to Chris’ brothers home. The kids we brought disappeared without a word and the rest of us went outside for more music al la Chris.

Sunday was a bit weird. When I got up Chris’ brother and his wife were leaving to go visit their daughter at University. They hadn’t mentioned that they would be doing that so we had a fast good-bye, then off they went. In the meantime one of Chris brothers friends had come over for a visit and he sat with us for a while talking. We’d met him before as Chris brother had brought him to the Toronto area for visits a few times. The friend is also a Canadian. Chris’ brother seems to know all of the Canadians in the area.

Leaving took a long time as people kept stopping by. Chris’ brothers father in law came to pick up one of my nephews for Hockey practice. I love the way they say Hockey, it’s more like Hawckey, and cops are caps etc. Interesting accent Chicago.

Our trip back only took about 10 hours. We skipped some construction and a few tolls by taking a slightly different route. We didn’t get home until close to 2 a.m. Monday morning.

I’ve got to work on my photos and put some up for my visitors to see. I’m very happy with most of them and I hope that you’ll enjoy them when I start sharing them with you.

I titled this post “One big city to another” because I was traveling from the fifth largest city in North America – Toronto – to the fourth largest city in North America- Chicago. The city of Chicago only has us beat population wise by about three hundred thousand people. Their urban area has perhaps 5 million more people than ours does though, but they don’t count that when they count populations for cities. Now I need to visit Los Angeles (3rd largest), New York (2nd largest) and Mexico city (1st) and I’ll be able to say that I’ve visited the five largest cities in N.A..

I didn’t see or do as much as I would have liked to have during my visit. Our trip was too short and was mostly travel back and forth. The next time I visit Chicago I’ll have to go for a week or more so that I can really come back saying that I’ve got a good sense of the city.

Funny thing, when we first got to Chris’ brothers home in the suburbs of Chicago the girl that came along with us turned to me and asked if I thought I could live there. I looked at her a little puzzled and said “Well, we just got here, all I’ve seen is the highway and this little suburb, so I have no idea if I’d like living here or not.” Now, after a day of walking around downtown and seeing some of the sites I think I could answer her question with a Yes, I think I could live here. It’s a big city, I like big cities because there’s so much to do. Yeah, I could live there.





Filed Under: Chronic Pain, Culture, Family, Fashion, Health Fitness and Beauty, Shopping, Vacation and Travel Tagged With: beauty, brother, Canada, chicago, crohns, Downtown, Fashion, Gardening, Health and Fitness, Health Fitness and Beauty, home, Home and Lifestyle, husband, IBD, Inflammatory bowel disease, Millenium park, pain, photo, photos, Shopping, sightseeing, style, stylish, Toronto, visit

Little princess is driving me Mad!

July 28, 2006 by Tricia

I’m so damn angry right now!

My boarder, a home stay student from Korea, has been driving me nuts all week. I could just break something right now!

I’m not going to get into all the details right now. I’m too pissed to do that. Grrrrrr!

The really short story is that we have to provide three meals for her each day. She does pay for room and board after all. In the past week she’s been switching things around, telling me she doesn’t want the food that we’ve been making for her for the last two months anymore. She wants her Korean food. So she’s been making some of her own lunches this week. Fine. She’s also been pretty much demanding a lot of other things, totally taking advantage of our good nature. Remember her New York trip a couple of weeks ago when she came home two days later than we expected. Shit, we thought something had happened to her.

Earlier today I was cleaning. Sweeping the hardwood floors both on the main floor and upstairs. We put an air conditioner in her room, so it didn’t make sense that I would sweep hallway and the rest of the rooms upstairs and not hers. If I didn’t then any dust in her room would blow out onto the nice clean floors. So I went into her room and swept.

In the process of sweeping her tiny room I accidentally knocked over her garbage can when I moved it. To my surprise out fell the sandwich that she’d made HERSELF last night for lunch today. Huh? She doesn’t want our food so she’s making her own and for some reason she throws it in the garbage before she goes to school? Uhmmm didn’t we tell her that as of last week, we are in a financial bind thanks to my medical unemployment coverage ending? We can’t afford for her to make food and then just throw it away. What a waste! I also found it sneaky. She could have just left it in the fridge and perhaps my husband would have eaten it.

So all week she’s been asking if she can buy the supplies (and be re-embursed by us) so that she can make herself Sushi for lunch. Ah, what does that cost? She said she’d find out and let us know.

While she was telling us this evening that she was going to go to the Korean section of town tomorrow to find out what the cost of the ingredients that she needs is, I decided to tell her that I had accidentally found her sandwich in her garbage and asked her why she did that.

She freaked on me! She accused me of violating her privacy and then got all teary. She said that we’ve been treating her different in the last couple of weeks too.

Well duh! You lied to us about your New York trip. Said it was a school trip then went on your own and met people down there, and then didn’t come home until the Wednesday rather than the Monday when we were expecting you. You also gobbled up a gift that one of our neighbors had given us just before that. We share things in this house. Yeah, no wonder we aren’t treating you with quite the same warmth, you made us lose trust in you.

But violating your privacy? No way princess. I never go in your room except to either turn the air-conditioner on, off or turn it up higher. That’s it and you know I do that. Today was a first, going in to do you a favor and sweep your floor. I didn’t mean to knock over your garbage and discover your deceit.

Speaking of having her privacy violated. I’m the one who’s mail is gone through and who’s cupboards, that you haven’t been given permission to look through, are riffled through. I’m the one who’s computer you jump on without invitation even though you have one that we provided for you upstairs in your room. I’m also the one that’s being stalked by an elderly neighbor so I don’t go outside during the day time unless the coast is clear and have to do most of my gardening in the dark with the raccoons! Geeesh!

Our discussion ended with both she and I in tears, and my husband sitting on the couch looking stressed and perplexed and trying to moderate the discussion. She calmed down and went upstairs to wash her face. She had been supposed to go out with friends but didn’t think she would after that discussion. Ten minutes later she was back downstairs saying she was going out. She’s still not home and I’m wondering if she’ll even come back tonight.

She’s paid up until the 10th of August so I don’t know if she’ll want to leave early or stay or what. As of right now I don’t fucking care. Of all people to accuse of violating her privacy … I respect privacy since I don’t feel like I have any. Does she think I went snooping around in her room? Why would I do that … and why is she so worried I wonder now … hmmm?

I’ve got steam coming out my ears! I’m so damn angry. She’s walked all over us, especially in the last month. When we picked her up at her former homestay the owners of the house told us that she was a handful, that she was a little princess, and they sure weren’t kidding. They wished us luck … guess we needed it. Damn, we should have turned around and left her there when they warned us.

Why in the hell am I doing this boarder thing anyway? Oh yeah, I almost forgot that I’m home, sick, so we need the money.

I don’t need this shit, really I don’t.

Filed Under: Borders, Culture, Home and Lifestyle, Toronto Tagged With: accident, angry, boarder, computer, couch, deceit, Food, garden, General Musings, home, house, lies, violating privacy, walked on

Two Weddings and a Hare Karishna Band?

July 20, 2006 by Tricia

Thirteen Things about Random stuff in my head

1…. I think I have someone elses foot attached to my right leg. It’s alien. Really … it’s huge! It’s also blue. From the ankle down it’s about three times bigger than it’s normal size. Thank you knee injury!

2…. Speaking of my knee I still appear to have two knee caps, although the new one is bigger than the old one. Time to see the doc again and figure out what’s going on as this can’t be normal.

3…. I’m also really tired lately. Now that is weird ’cause I’m never tired. Maybe it’s because I’ve been dragging around this alien limb for almost two weeks?

4…. In other news, Chris has been busy Jamming with a band every night this week. The band is making a CD and I believe that Chris has been asked to play on it.

5…. The band is a little different. From what I can tell it’s modernized East Indian music. It has a an interesting beat – sounds like a bit of Tom Cochrane, Tragically hip and even Pink Floyd guitar chords mixed with exotic Indian instruments. Very cool.

6…. Chris got involved with this band because one of the musicians is marrying his cousin in August and he asked Chris to play with him after the ceremony. Now they’ve been jamming and it seems to be going further than just playing one gig.

7…. Speaking of the wedding- it’s actually two weddings. August 10th and August 11th.

8…. The first wedding will be a traditional East indian (Hindu) wedding held at the Hare Karishna Temple, and the second wedding the following day will be a catholic ceremony followed by a very “Irish” reception. By very Irish I mean there will be lots of alcohol involved, but the first wedding will be alcohol free.

9…. Chris actually just came home from a practice session and he tells me that after the Hindu ceremony they are going to play George Harrison’s My Sweet Lord and they will be accompanied by the Hare Karishna “House Band”. Then just before they finish My Sweet lord the Hare Karishna’s will do some of their throat chanting followed by the end chords of My sweet lord.

10…. Now doesn’t that sound cool? All those Hare Karishna in their flowing orange gowns singing My Sweet Lord and chanting. I’m going to have to get that on video, for sure. Chris is laughing. He thinks it will be very interesting but he’s picturing his very religious Aunts reaction, and then he’s picturing his ham of a brothers reaction.

11…. The weddings are on a Thursday and Friday, and that weekend we have the Taste of the Danforth here in Toronto. Mmmmm Greek food and entertainment within walking distance of my home.

12…. I’m imagining all of the photo opportunities I’m going to have in a few weeks. Four days of very interesting events that I fully plan to attend. This lump of a leg better be almost healed by then!

13…. Speaking of photos … on our trip to Ottawa last weekend I managed to take almost 200 pictures with my Nokia 6682 cell phone and my digital camera. Only two of the pics were of my Aunts 80th birthday parties, the rest were of the lovely scenery we passed while driving.

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Filed Under: Entertainment, Family, Home and Lifestyle, Life with Chris, Socializing, Thursday Thirteen, Toronto Tagged With: brother, Catholic, cell phone, Chris, digital camera, Entertainment, Food, guitar, Hare Karishna, Hindu, Irish, Music, musician, Thursday 13, Thursday Thirteen, Toronto, Wedding, weekend

That monster bite me!

June 19, 2006 by Tricia

I’ve been mauled!

I haven’t been around for the last few days because I needed to get some work done in my very neglected garden. Naturally I decided to garden during a heat wave! Boy am I smart or what?

So I go out into my backyard to give all my plants some much needed love and attention and what do they do to me? They attacked me! Talk about biting the hand that feeds you! Literally.

The ringer leader was this thug of a rose called Antique 89. Some name on that girl huh? I think I’ll just call her monster from now on. I thought I could take her. Yeah, she’s seven feet tall, only a little more than a foot taller than me, but I’m smarter, or at least I thought I was when the battle began.

I chose to wrestle with the monster first because the wind had started to blow her over and she really needed to be straightened out. Turns out I was the one that got a straightening out. She was heavier than I expected and I ended up half underneath her before I knew what was happened.

That’s when the screaming started. She sank her gigantic thorns into my back, into my arms, hands and legs. The more I moved the more entangled I got. There was no winning this battle, or so I thought.

Some time during the eternity that I was fighting with this mother of a rose our boarder came outside looking for me. She didn’t find me. Hello? Roses don’t scream! That was me under neath that huge green thing in the corner that was making all the noise.

I finally shoved a few stakes in beside her thick stems and got untagged from her thorny branches. She was still leaning heavily on me and I’m sure blood was dripping on the ground below her leafy bows. I think I tired her out. I used my trusty garden tape to tie her to the stakes that I had surrounded her with so that she couldn’t harm anyone else.

Just then my husband came outside and said “Oh, I thought you were going to call me if you needed help?” He obviously didn’t hear my screams and the subsequent sobbing that occurred.

I went on to battle several other roses over the weekend and won those fights easily. Oh yes, they bit me, but after tangling with the monster I barely felt their thorns.

You see, my arms are on fire. My battle with the thorny monster was on Friday and still my arms are burning. I have at least 50 scratches from the tips of my fingers to just above my elbows on each arm. I look like I’ve been attacked by ten cats. I was wearing pants when I was struggling with the rose but she still managed to scratch up my legs pretty good. I’ll have to take a better look at those pants and see if there are holes in them now.

I’m going to have to stay on top of this gardening situation from now on, especially where Antique 89 is concerned. She’s tasted my blood, now there will be no stopping her if she’s given a small chance. Nope! I’m either going to have to cage her up to keep her from taking other victims or I’ll have to battle her wearing armor. Now isn’t that pretty picture? Particularly if it’s 100 F out! Whew!

And how was your weekend?

Filed Under: Entertainment, Gardening, Home and Lifestyle, Humor, Recreation, Toronto, Tricia's Garden Tagged With: backyard, battle, garden, Gardening, help, husband, manage, plant, plants, rose, scratches, thorns, tired, weekend

It’s been a busy week

June 15, 2006 by Tricia

Thirteen Things about About this past week

1…. I discovered that an old friend of mine was reading this site and I was thrilled when she decided to contact me. Hi Lisa!

2…. I was also happy that we seem to still be on the same wavelength, and that there are some similarities in what is going on in each of our lives right now.

3…. Lisa contacting me, caused me to get in touch with another friend that I haven’t spoken with for a few months. So it’s been an “old friends” sort of week.

4…. Our new boarder moved in on Saturday, or rather we picked her up from the home that she’d been staying in and helped her move in.

5…. Her former “Homestay Parents” told us she was very demanding and that she was a “princess”. So Chris promptly nicknamed her princess after she’d been here for a few hours.

6…. It turns out that our new boarder is a little demanding but I think we can handle it. She kind of follows me around the house when she comes home from school. However she does offer to help with dinner and sometimes clears the dishes off the table when we’ve finished eating and I do appreciate her doing this occasionally.

7…. The boarder only made me mad on Sunday. We were supposed to be going to Chris sisters when he got off work late Sunday afternoon and we’d told our boarder about our little trip. She said that she would be going out and meeting with friends at a Jazz festival. I asked her if she’d be eating out and she said yes. So great- no one would be home for dinner since we’d all be out. Sunday arrived and she went out to meet some friends in the afternoon but not before informing me that she wanted dinner at 5 pm before she was going to go out with her friends for the evening. Huh? We won’t be home at 5? I ended up making her a dinner and then Chris and I left to go to Waterloo. That will not happen again. So far that’s been the only incident that upset me. Everything else has been pretty good.

8…. Sunday was Chris’ nieces’ first communion. We couldn’t make the ceremony but we showed up at his sisters for the party in the evening.

9…. The party ended up being in and around the hot tub! Unfortunately Chris had forgotten to remind me to bring a bathing suit so I didn’t go in.

10…. Chris did though and he pretty much spent the whole evening soaking in the hot tub. Now he wants us to get one. hmmm where in our tiny backyard shall we put it?

11…. Actually I do have an idea on where we might put a hot tub if we ever got one. We have an enclosed back porch (Florida Room) and it has a very large storage area underneath it. My thoughts are that we should dig down into the cement storage area and sink a hot tub partially under the Florida room. If we dug deep enough we could even put in an entrance to the basement. This would be great in the winter as we could get right into the tub by entering through the basement rather than trudging around the backyard in the snow. I think I like this idea.

12…. The rest of the week has been spent working on my two new sites and moving this one over to it’s brand new domain.

13…. Chris saw the sleep doctor today to get the results of his sleep study. Just as I thought he has sleep apnea. Severe sleep apnea according to the doctor. Now he might need to wear one of those special breath masks when he sleeps, or have some surgery on his throat and sinus’ to see if it helps. We’ll see what happens. Last Thursday I had my appt with the sleep study doctor and found out that I have skipped heart beats when I’m sleeping. So I guess the two of us have some sleep problems after all.

Filed Under: Culture, Entertainment, Home and Lifestyle, Thursday Thirteen Tagged With: boarder, hot tub, Old friends, Thursday Thirteen, TT

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